The nights haven't improved. Finley still needs the pacifier 5 times a night. But I'm going to put 12 pacifiers in her crib tonight and hope that as she lifts and drops her head she might just land on one properly and go back to sleep. Meryl just needs to snuggle and have a pacifier put back in her mouth about 9 times a night. But she fights the pacifier. Once I get it in her mouth she settles and then falls to sleep in my arms.
So..... please pardon my lapses of any common sense, knowledge or awareness of the world while I struggle along for the next few years with severe sleep deprivation. I have given up hope.
Good thing they are cute in their cages.